Berjabat Tangan dengan Wanita??
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Adapun berjabat tangan antara laki-laki dengan perempuan yang bukan mahramnya adalah dilarang, berdasarkan dalil-dalil sebagai berikut :
Sabda Nabi SAW :
اِنِّى لاَ اُصَافِحُ النِّسَاءَ. مالك و الترمذى و النسائى
Sesungguhnya aku tidak berjabat tangan dengan wanita. [HR. Malik, Tirmidzi dan Nasai]
قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ: مَا مَسَّتْ يَدُ رَسُوْلِ اللهِ ص يَدَ امْرَأَةٍ لاَ يَمْلِكُهَا قَطُّ. البخارى و مسلم
Telah berkata 'Aisyah, "Tangan Rasulullah SAW tak pernah sama sekali menyentuh tangan wanita yang tidak halal baginya". [HSR. Bukhari dan Muslim]
قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ: لاَ وَ اللهِ لاَ مَسَّتْ يَدُهُ يَدَ امْرَأَةٍ قَطُّ غَيْرَ اَنَّهُ بَايَعَهُنَّ بِاْلكَلاَمِ. البخارى و مسلم
Telah berkata 'Aisyah, "Tidak ! Demi Allah, tak pernah sekalipun tangan Rasulullah SAW menyentuh tangan wanita, beliau membai'at (perjanjian) mereka hanya dengan perkataan". [HSR. Bukhari dan Muslim]
قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ: مَا مَسَّ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ ص يَدَ امْرَأَةٍ قَطُّ. البخارى و مسلم
Telah berkata 'Aisyah, "Tidak pernah sekalipun Rasulullah SAW menyentuh tangan wanita". [HSR. Bukhari dan Muslim]
لاَنْ يُطْعَنَ فِى رَأْسِ اَحَدِكُمْ بِمِخْيَطٍ مِنْ حَدِيْدٍ خَيْرٌ لَهُ مِنْ اَنْ يَمَسَّ امْرَأَةً لاَ تَحِلُّ لَهُ. الطبرانى
Ditikam seorang daripada kamu di kepalanya dengan jarum dari besi itu, adalah lebih baik daripada ia menyentuh seorang wanita yang tidak halal baginya. [HSR. Thabrani]
لاَنْ يَزْحَمَ رَجُلاً حِنْزِيْرٌ مُتَلَطِّخٌ بِطِيْنٍ اَوْ حَمْأَةٍ خَيْرٌ لَهُ مِنْ اَنْ يَزْحَمَ مَنْكِبُهُ مَنْكِبَ امْرَأَةٍ لاَ تَحِلُّ لَهُ. الطبرانى
Seorang laki-laki bersentuhan dengan seekor babi yang berlumuran dengan lumpur itu, lebih baik daripada ia bersentuhan bahu dengan wanita yang tidak halal baginya. [HSR. Thabrani]
Dari hadits-hadits tersebut di atas menunjukkan bahwa Rasulullah SAW tidak pernah berjabat tangan dengan wanita-wanita, padahal Rasulullah berjabat tangan dengan laki-laki waktu bai'at.
Di dalam Al-Qur'an surat An-Nuur ayat 30 dan 31, dan juga di dalam hadits, laki-laki dilarang melihat wanita dan sebaliknya, dan kita diperintahkan supaya menundukkan pandangan.
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As for shaking hands between the male with the female who is not prohibited, mahramnya is based on the postulates as follows:
The Word of the prophet saw:
You have that you don't have iّy was added to the poor. Iّsa Malik and ltrmdhy and petticoat.
I don't shake hands with women. [HR. Malik, at-Tirmidhi and nasai]
He said she knew you would. A: never masaّ, he must have been a asūli God they sleep know I'm gonna do you a yamlikuha. were going. Vapor and Muslim.
He has said, "the ' hand of the messenger hasn't been the same never touched the hand of a woman who is not lawful for him". [HSR. Bukhari and Muslim]
He said she knew you would. A: don't you and God. No you aren't masaّ approaches they have you or I know. I miss g is a aّhu some What you have to have ben weren't listening. Vapor and Muslim.
' Aisha had said, " No! For God's sake, don't ever hand messenger of God to touch a woman's hand, he membai ' at (they only deal with the word ". [HSR. Bukhari and Muslim]
He said she knew you would. A: never masaّ asūlu God saw a might let it or know something I'm gonna cut it. Vapor and Muslim.
Have to say, "He's never even sent you to touch the hands of women". [HSR. Bukhari and Muslim]
Don't you be a you saw āٔsi fiy, hasn't it ikum bimi a brother from the aftv. Brother a has two from her you know yamasaّ or I'm gonna.. Don't you love iluّ for him. Lţbrạny
Stabbed a than you in the head with a needle of iron, it is better than he touch a woman who is not lawful for him. [HSR. Tabarani]
Don't you know it well. Don't. You get a aftv's meet I have a brother all exporters, kind of like a brother amạaٔ two maybe for him than we are. A Run-of-the-Lamb who kibuhu who kiba or know I'm gonna. Don't you love iluّ for him. Lţbrạny
A man in touch with a pig that is stained with mud, better than he in touch shoulders with a woman who is not lawful for him. [HSR. Tabarani]
Hadith of the hadith mentioned above shows that the apostle did not shake hands with the women, whereas the messenger shaking hands with men time bai ' at.
In Al-Qur ' an surat an-nuur verse 30 and 31, and also in the hadits, men are forbidden to see women and vice versa, and we have been commanded to bow sight
Sabda Nabi SAW :
اِنِّى لاَ اُصَافِحُ النِّسَاءَ. مالك و الترمذى و النسائى
Sesungguhnya aku tidak berjabat tangan dengan wanita. [HR. Malik, Tirmidzi dan Nasai]
قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ: مَا مَسَّتْ يَدُ رَسُوْلِ اللهِ ص يَدَ امْرَأَةٍ لاَ يَمْلِكُهَا قَطُّ. البخارى و مسلم
Telah berkata 'Aisyah, "Tangan Rasulullah SAW tak pernah sama sekali menyentuh tangan wanita yang tidak halal baginya". [HSR. Bukhari dan Muslim]
قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ: لاَ وَ اللهِ لاَ مَسَّتْ يَدُهُ يَدَ امْرَأَةٍ قَطُّ غَيْرَ اَنَّهُ بَايَعَهُنَّ بِاْلكَلاَمِ. البخارى و مسلم
Telah berkata 'Aisyah, "Tidak ! Demi Allah, tak pernah sekalipun tangan Rasulullah SAW menyentuh tangan wanita, beliau membai'at (perjanjian) mereka hanya dengan perkataan". [HSR. Bukhari dan Muslim]
قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ: مَا مَسَّ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ ص يَدَ امْرَأَةٍ قَطُّ. البخارى و مسلم
Telah berkata 'Aisyah, "Tidak pernah sekalipun Rasulullah SAW menyentuh tangan wanita". [HSR. Bukhari dan Muslim]
لاَنْ يُطْعَنَ فِى رَأْسِ اَحَدِكُمْ بِمِخْيَطٍ مِنْ حَدِيْدٍ خَيْرٌ لَهُ مِنْ اَنْ يَمَسَّ امْرَأَةً لاَ تَحِلُّ لَهُ. الطبرانى
Ditikam seorang daripada kamu di kepalanya dengan jarum dari besi itu, adalah lebih baik daripada ia menyentuh seorang wanita yang tidak halal baginya. [HSR. Thabrani]
لاَنْ يَزْحَمَ رَجُلاً حِنْزِيْرٌ مُتَلَطِّخٌ بِطِيْنٍ اَوْ حَمْأَةٍ خَيْرٌ لَهُ مِنْ اَنْ يَزْحَمَ مَنْكِبُهُ مَنْكِبَ امْرَأَةٍ لاَ تَحِلُّ لَهُ. الطبرانى
Seorang laki-laki bersentuhan dengan seekor babi yang berlumuran dengan lumpur itu, lebih baik daripada ia bersentuhan bahu dengan wanita yang tidak halal baginya. [HSR. Thabrani]
Dari hadits-hadits tersebut di atas menunjukkan bahwa Rasulullah SAW tidak pernah berjabat tangan dengan wanita-wanita, padahal Rasulullah berjabat tangan dengan laki-laki waktu bai'at.
Di dalam Al-Qur'an surat An-Nuur ayat 30 dan 31, dan juga di dalam hadits, laki-laki dilarang melihat wanita dan sebaliknya, dan kita diperintahkan supaya menundukkan pandangan.
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As for shaking hands between the male with the female who is not prohibited, mahramnya is based on the postulates as follows:
The Word of the prophet saw:
You have that you don't have iّy was added to the poor. Iّsa Malik and ltrmdhy and petticoat.
I don't shake hands with women. [HR. Malik, at-Tirmidhi and nasai]
He said she knew you would. A: never masaّ, he must have been a asūli God they sleep know I'm gonna do you a yamlikuha. were going. Vapor and Muslim.
He has said, "the ' hand of the messenger hasn't been the same never touched the hand of a woman who is not lawful for him". [HSR. Bukhari and Muslim]
He said she knew you would. A: don't you and God. No you aren't masaّ approaches they have you or I know. I miss g is a aّhu some What you have to have ben weren't listening. Vapor and Muslim.
' Aisha had said, " No! For God's sake, don't ever hand messenger of God to touch a woman's hand, he membai ' at (they only deal with the word ". [HSR. Bukhari and Muslim]
He said she knew you would. A: never masaّ asūlu God saw a might let it or know something I'm gonna cut it. Vapor and Muslim.
Have to say, "He's never even sent you to touch the hands of women". [HSR. Bukhari and Muslim]
Don't you be a you saw āٔsi fiy, hasn't it ikum bimi a brother from the aftv. Brother a has two from her you know yamasaّ or I'm gonna.. Don't you love iluّ for him. Lţbrạny
Stabbed a than you in the head with a needle of iron, it is better than he touch a woman who is not lawful for him. [HSR. Tabarani]
Don't you know it well. Don't. You get a aftv's meet I have a brother all exporters, kind of like a brother amạaٔ two maybe for him than we are. A Run-of-the-Lamb who kibuhu who kiba or know I'm gonna. Don't you love iluّ for him. Lţbrạny
A man in touch with a pig that is stained with mud, better than he in touch shoulders with a woman who is not lawful for him. [HSR. Tabarani]
Hadith of the hadith mentioned above shows that the apostle did not shake hands with the women, whereas the messenger shaking hands with men time bai ' at.
In Al-Qur ' an surat an-nuur verse 30 and 31, and also in the hadits, men are forbidden to see women and vice versa, and we have been commanded to bow sight
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